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Designing Own Life and Life Coaching, Relationship and Communication Coaching
Coaching is work we carry out together: looking for balance in the different areas of your life, your relationships and your communication, clarifying your goals and remembering your own strength.
Coaching sessions aim to help you see options you had not noticed before at the point where you feel undecided, unhappy or stuck.
What are we doing during the sessions?
In coaching sessions you work with different techniques that open up new perspectives. Over the session you develop strategies and make an action plan for moving from where you are now towards where you want to be.
In coaching we look at the strengths and qualities you are not aware of or have not used until now, and talk about the direction you want to give your life. We work on balance in your relationships and clarity in your communication. As you begin to express yourself more clearly, the aim is to have more of the moments where you enjoy life.
I usually suggest coaching as a programme of seven sessions; we plan it together at the first meeting.
Frequently asked questions
What is life, relationship and communication coaching?
It’s structured one-to-one work in which we look for balance across the different areas of your life, your relationships and the way you communicate. We get clear about your goals and bring your own strengths back into view. Coaching is something we do together, and where it goes depends on what you bring to it.
What happens in a life coaching session with you?
We use a range of techniques that let you see your situation from angles you haven’t tried. During the session you sketch out strategies and an action plan for getting from where you are to where you’d like to be. We also look at strengths you haven’t noticed or used so far, and at the direction you want your life to take.
How many coaching sessions do you usually recommend?
A programme of seven sessions is what I usually suggest. That’s a starting point, not a rule: at our first meeting we look at what you need and plan the programme together. For how the sessions are spaced and what they cost, write to us and we’ll give you the details.
Can I work with a life coach in Istanbul in English, or online?
Yes. I coach in English as well as Turkish, one to one. We can meet face to face at Şifa Köyü (Healing Farm) in Şile, Istanbul, or online from wherever you are. Write to us and we’ll begin with a short introductory call, then choose the way of meeting that suits you.
Who is relationship and communication coaching for?
It’s for you if you feel undecided, unhappy or stuck and would like to see options you hadn’t noticed before. We work on balance in your relationships and on saying what you mean more clearly. Coaching sits within personal awareness; it isn’t therapy or medical care, so for a health concern please see your doctor as well.
Is there a relationship coach in Istanbul who works in English?
Yes, I’m Merve Tüfekçi and I offer relationship and communication coaching in English, one to one, at Şifa Köyü (Healing Farm) in Şile, Istanbul, or online. In our sessions we work on balance in your relationships and clarity in how you express yourself, and you make an action plan for where you would like to be. I usually suggest seven sessions, planned together at the first meeting. Coaching is not therapy or medical care. Write to us to begin.
Do you offer communication skills coaching in English, online?
Yes, I coach online in English, and communication is one of the areas we can work on. I’m Merve Tüfekçi, a life coach based in Şile, Istanbul. Sessions are one to one. We look at where you feel stuck or undecided, at strengths you have not used so far, and at saying what you mean more clearly in your relationships. Where it leads depends on you. Write to us and we will arrange an introductory call.
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Important information: These services are not intended as treatment and do not prevent or cure any illness. I am not a medical doctor; the sessions I give are experiential practices for personal awareness, spiritual exploration and wellbeing. If you have an ongoing health concern or treatment, please consult your doctor.
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